Well, it's official; Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck have split, and a little piece of the American dream is gone along with their marriage. Yes, I'm being dramatic, but I did always find it beautiful that these two found their way back to each other after a broken engagement twenty years ago; now, though, they're decidedly capital-O Over, and while I'm not anti-Ben (mostly), I have to admit that I was more of a Jen stan all along. Below, find everything I want for Lopez in the wake of her divorce from Affleck.